A Season of Wishes: Embracing Moments, Love, and Solitude this Christmas

As we embrace the festive season, I find myself reflecting on the essence of Christmas beyond the hustle and bustle. Today, I want to share three heartfelt wishes with you, my cherished Goddesses. These wishes are not wrapped in tinsel or adorned with bows, but they hold the power to transform your holiday season into a memorable tapestry of joy, love, and introspection.

Jeanne Retief (FIGGI Beauty & FIGGI Life) shares her Christmas wishes 2023 for her goddess community


1. The Gift of Alone-Time

In the whirlwind of festive festivities and joyful gatherings, my heartfelt wish for you is to carve out a sanctuary of solitude. For those navigating the intricate landscape of anxiety, like me, the need for time alone isn’t a luxury but a vital component of survival. Amidst the bustling energy of the season, granting myself the gift of solitary moments becomes a profound act of peace and grounding.

Anxiety, with its persistent whispers and sometimes overwhelming waves, can leave me feeling like a ship tossed in a storm. In these moments of internal turbulence, seeking refuge in solitude becomes an anchor for me—a lifeline to steady myself amidst chaotic currents. Its not an escape from reality but a deliberate pause, a sacred interlude to recalibrate my internal compass.

In the gentle embrace of solitude, my anxious mind can unwind and release the tension that often accompanies the holiday hustle. Whether it’s a solitary walk in nature, a moment of reflection by the window, or the silent companionship of a good book, these stolen moments offer a chance to breathe, to ground myself in the present, and to restore my equilibrium before heading out into another crowd.

So, my wish for you this Christmas is to recognize the transformative power of time alone – even if its five stolen moments alone in the coat closet🥰. Embrace it not as a withdrawal from Festive responsibilites but as a deliberate act of self-love. In these solitary moments, may you find the serenity needed to navigate the season’s demands, allowing the beauty of your authentic self to shine through the festive chaos.

2. Being Present with Your Children

My second wish extends to the magical moments shared with your little ones. As they eagerly unwrap their presents, my hope is that you’ll immerse yourself in the sheer wonder and joy reflected in their eyes. Put aside the distractions, silence the buzzing gadgets, and be fully present in the enchanting world of your children. Create lasting memories and snapshots in your mind by relishing the simplicity of their laughter, the sparkle in their eyes, and the boundless excitement that only Christmas morning can bring.

For anxious parents like me, these moments of unbridled joy become beacons of light amid the seasonal hustle. The act of being present holds a transformative power, offering respite from the tumultuous currents of anxious thoughts. As my little girls tears through festive wrapping paper with uncontainable glee, I’m always transported to a magical place where I’m taking mental snapshots and keeping them safely tucked in my memory.

So, my wish for you is to embrace the transformative magic of presence during this season of unwrapping. See beyond the surface of the gifts, and immerse yourself in the genuine joy of your children. Allow the contagious laughter and boundless excitement to anchor you in the present, creating cherished memories that outshine any perfectionist anxieties.

3. Cherishing Romantic Moments

The holiday season isn’t just about family and friends; it’s also an opportunity to deepen the connection with your significant other. My third wish is for you to share a romantic moment that transcends the festive hustle. Whether it’s a stolen kiss under the miseltoe, a quiet hug late on Christmas Eve when “Santa” delivers the presents, a stroll under twinkling lights, or a cozy night by the fireplace, take a moment to relish each other’s company. Amidst the chaos, find a haven of intimacy and warmth that will sustain you during Holiday chaos.

As the festive lights twinkle and carols fill the air, my wishes for you are woven into these simple yet profound moments. Embrace the magic of the season, not just in the grand celebrations, but in the precious, fleeting moments that make Christmas truly special.

From my heart to yours, have a Merry Christmas Goddess🎄


My FIGGI Life Podcast with Jeanne available on Spotify, Apple podcasts, Google podcasts

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